You survived it. Now you're figuring out how to live beyond it.
Trauma can change the way you experience yourself, your relationships, and the world around you.
Maybe you feel constantly on guard, disconnected from yourself, overwhelmed by emotions, or unsure why certain situations affect you so strongly. You may avoid people, places, and objects that remind you of what happened, struggle to trust others, have difficulty feeling safe in close relationships, or find yourself reacting to situations in ways that seem bigger than the moment calls for.
You may also have done a lot of work to understand what happened and still feel like something inside you hasn't caught up.
Knowing that something is in the past doesn't always mean your mind and body experience it that way.
Trauma can leave behind patterns of protection that once helped you cope but may now make it difficult to feel present, connected, or fully engaged in your life. Healing involves more than simply telling yourself that you're safe or trying to stop thinking about what happened.
Trauma therapy doesn't have to mean immediately retelling every detail of what happened. In our work, we'll focus on creating enough safety and stability to explore your experiences at a pace that feels manageable. We'll pay attention to what happens not only in your thoughts and emotions, but also in your body and nervous system.
I integrate somatic approaches, psychodynamic therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and other evidence-based interventions based on your needs and goals.
This may be for you if...
You find yourself:
Feeling on edge, hypervigilant, or constantly scanning for danger
Experiencing anxiety, panic, or strong emotional reactions
Freezing, shutting down, disconnecting, or feeling numb
Avoiding situations, conversations, or relationships that bring up difficult memories
Struggling to trust people or feel safe being vulnerable
Feeling disconnected from your body, emotions, or sense of self
Having difficulty regulating emotions when something reminds you of the past
Experiencing shame, guilt, or self-blame related to what happened
Feeling like you are always waiting for something to go wrong
Finding that certain sounds, interactions, environments, or relationship dynamics affect you unexpectedly
Understanding your trauma intellectually but still feeling stuck in its effects
Wanting to move forward without pretending that what happened didn't affect you
Trauma doesn't look the same for everyone. It can result from a single overwhelming event, but it can also develop through repeated experiences such as chronic emotional stress, neglect, difficult relationships, or growing up in an environment where you didn't consistently feel safe, heard, or supported.